Sparkle

This is the word that I use to describe a person who brings indescribable joy into my family's life. He has the sort of personality that lights up a room whenever he enters. His face is pleasant and sweet as he is. Friends find him easy-going and fun to be around. He is a reasonably good student, loves sport, and loves people. I think he is quite well-rounded.

Although he wears his emotions on his sleeve, he is amazingly even-tempered. He can be hurt or angered, but always, always, the smile of an unburdened conscience rapidly prevails. I wish we were all like this. The world would be so much more pleasant. You should see when something exciting happens in his world. Recently, he did very well on a school essay - the teacher requested to keep it. His exuberance is quite physical. He is not shy, and will dance and jump if there's reason for it.

Perhaps what I appreciate the most about him is his sense of himself. He is not a proud person, nor is he falsely self-effacing. A realistic humility allows him to be unapologetic about what he is good at, and unhesitating at asking for help where he needs it. Being genuinely enthusiastic about the abilities of others makes him a welcome cheerleader among his peers. There is no island mentality in him. He speaks freely about what he finds amazing about his friends - whether their abilities, character, or life circumstances. He is often thrust into the role of a peacemaker, and I think he is uniquely gifted to bridge the distance between people torn apart. I hope that God will bless him with such a lifetime role. This hope lives because God is first in his life. This is evidenced by a teachable attitude, and timely follow-through on new truths learned.

Of course, perfection eludes even him. He does have some growing to do to become more sensitive, helpful, and less defensive. But there is plenty about him that tells me he is well on his way.

My son sparkles!

Well, he has just turned 16, and has gotten his learner's driving permit. So all of you on the road out there, look out!